Once people have experienced true beauty, their tolerance for inferior things will fade away like the ebbing tide. Having experienced wholehearted love, the ambiguous and distant relationships can no longer stir your heart. Having felt the friendship forged through thick and thin, the superficial and false friendships seem empty and dull. When immersed in a self-disciplined life rhythm, the past muddled days instantly lose their luster. Once you've associated with sincere people, you'll lose interest in hypocrites. We always use "let nature take its course" to shirk from seizing the opportunities in life.
We just throw up our hands and do nothing, rarely admitting that we've missed out on beauty time and time again. Life is but a few decades long, and there are only about a dozen years when we can truly and effectively change ourselves. Every time we miss the chance to experience beauty due to cowardice, we're betraying our lives.
人一旦领略过真正的美好,内心对低劣事物的包容便会如潮水般退去。经历过全心全意的爱情,若即若离的暧昧便无法再让你心动。感受过患难与共的友情,流于表面的塑料感情便显得空洞乏味。沉浸于自律且充实的生活节奏中时,过往浑浑噩噩的空虛日子便瞬间失去了色彩。交往过真诚的人,伪善者便再难入你法眼。
我们总是拿顺其自然數衍人生道路上的种种机缘,两手一摊,无所作为,却很少承认,自己曾一次次与美好擦肩而过。人生短短数十载,真正能有效改变自已的,不过十几年。每一次因懦弱而错过体验美好的契机,都是对生命的辜负。