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很多人都觉得读书,赚钱为了跳出自己的认知去见世面,所谓世面,不过是世界的一面而已,你知道牛排五分熟好吃,别人能一眼分辨出麦子和水稻的区别,科学家知道如何能够让火箭升空,农民知道如何才能有好的收成,城里的孩子见过高楼大厦,农村的孩子见过漫天繁星…
很多时候,所谓的高级只不过只是偏见,这个世界太大了,谁也没有资格说自己见过天地万物。
世面这东西是见不完的,人与人更是不同,有人梦想去大城市,有人梦想去山里支教,有人喜欢穿高跟鞋,有人只穿平底鞋,谁又比谁见过世面?众生皆不同…亦无上下更无左右,人只要活着都在见世面,没有见过这一说,如若真的要形容见过世面,我想那一定是充分理解每一个人的不同,充分包容每一种不同的存在,它没有规矩,更并非炫耀。
很多事情不需要有意义,吃喝玩乐不等于虚度光阴,吃苦耐劳也不等于意义非凡,当你焦虑内耗时,请一定记得,人生只是各种体验的叠加,只要你想,你就可以去做那些看似无意义的事,比如发呆,看日出,数星星,你的体验就是最大的意义。人生并不是一定要去做大家世俗认为有意义的事,意义是自己赐予的。人生是旷野不是轨道,只要当下你是享受的就是有意义的,我的意思是不如去码头整点薯条。
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Once people have experienced true beauty, their tolerance for inferior things will fade away like the ebbing tide. Having experienced wholehearted love, the ambiguous and distant relationships can no longer stir your heart. Having felt the friendship forged through thick and thin, the superficial and false friendships seem empty and dull. When immersed in a self-disciplined life rhythm, the past muddled days instantly lose their luster. Once you've associated with sincere people, you'll lose interest in hypocrites. We always use "let nature take its course" to shirk from seizing the opportunities in life.
We just throw up our hands and do nothing, rarely admitting that we've missed out on beauty time and time again. Life is but a few decades long, and there are only about a dozen years when we can truly and effectively change ourselves. Every time we miss the chance to experience beauty due to cowardice, we're betraying our lives.
人一旦领略过真正的美好,内心对低劣事物的包容便会如潮水般退去。经历过全心全意的爱情,若即若离的暧昧便无法再让你心动。感受过患难与共的友情,流于表面的塑料感情便显得空洞乏味。沉浸于自律且充实的生活节奏中时,过往浑浑噩噩的空虛日子便瞬间失去了色彩。交往过真诚的人,伪善者便再难入你法眼。
我们总是拿顺其自然數衍人生道路上的种种机缘,两手一摊,无所作为,却很少承认,自己曾一次次与美好擦肩而过。人生短短数十载,真正能有效改变自已的,不过十几年。每一次因懦弱而错过体验美好的契机,都是对生命的辜负。
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